Friday, November 14, 2008

Life is sweet

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Originally uploaded by sandy_radbabe
Yes, I'm still recovering, still in a bit of pain, but maybe the oxycodone is getting me all sappy and mellow. I've been getting nice emails and IMs and calls from friends wishing me well. Feels good.

While I was home I did some photo organizing. Here's a shot that was taken at a recent party. One friend, A., tied my ankles and knees. While he was deciding what to do next, a lady that I'd just met that night, S, asked if she could do some rope work on me. I believe this is called a bondage dress. It's not hard to do, and I'm hoping I can do it to someone else soon. The constriction of the ropes felt wonderful, as did the helpless feeling. Yes, I agree that I want this done to me and I go into it willingly. Yes, I can stop the scene or ask to be untied at any point. But I still feel helpless and a little out of control when this happens. And I like that...

Afterward they dragged me onto the couch, and Rad spanked me. No point in putting someone into bondage without punishing them, too, right?


LauraT said...

These are the people that did Macrame in the 70s as training for this. All those plant hangers could have been multitasking all this time.

Anonymous said...

So glad you are recovering. That is a great pic, and you are right on all counts.

Laura - too true with the macrame.

We have lots of rope, but it is just sitting, hidden away, waiting...


Ms. Cassandra (Sandy) Park said...

Laura -- Damn, I coulda been doing macrame and learnin' something useful insteada smokin all the doobage!

Is that what I am, a hanging fruit basket?

Dolly -- Bring out the rope!!

D said...

Hi Sandy,

Glad the recovery is going well. Wish it could be less painful for you. Well.. yay for drugs at least! :)

Great photo! You are looking mighty sexy girlfriend. Great visual of you all bound up and them dragging you over Rad's knee.

Thinking of you guys often, feel better!


Ms. Cassandra (Sandy) Park said...

Hey, D! Thanks. I'm uncomfortable tonight. Hoping tomorrow is better.

Have a great night.