tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-61065085698536885862024-02-19T00:42:14.117-05:00This Cat Is CrazyA kinky girl talks about life in NYCMs. Cassandra (Sandy) Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06868672752765383585noreply@blogger.comBlogger228125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6106508569853688586.post-70384390999374308802010-06-01T22:00:00.004-04:002010-06-01T22:12:21.461-04:00Time for a changeHere's where I write some boring explanation as to why I'm switching blog titles, but there's nothing deeper to say than I got tired of "This Cat is Crazy." Always thought it was kind of a dumb title, I didn't write about my cats as much as I'd planned, and I really want to write about the scene more -- from my perspective as a bottom. (I blog from the top at The Corporal Consultant, Ms. Cassandra (Sandy) Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06868672752765383585noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6106508569853688586.post-1563218823240652652010-05-23T06:48:00.004-04:002010-05-23T07:08:16.405-04:00ShiftingI can't seem to get a handle on my feelings about bottoming these days. It's left me feeling unsatisfied except with a few, select tops. And because I don't play with those tops that often, it's really hard to accept the pain when I DO. I guess it's always hard to accept the pain. But it's not as much of a shock when you do it more often. And it's also easier to accept when someone's in an Ms. Cassandra (Sandy) Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06868672752765383585noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6106508569853688586.post-72262415855591400062010-05-19T23:47:00.007-04:002010-05-20T00:46:39.634-04:00What's a spanking party like?With Florida Moonshine coming up in about two weeks, I've been thinking about writing here about the parties, what happens there and why we spend the money to go. Coincidentally, a dom who's never been to a party wrote me today on FetLife, asking what these events were like. I responded in detail, and I figured I'd recap that here. The two big parties that Rad and I go to are Shadow Lane and Ms. Cassandra (Sandy) Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06868672752765383585noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6106508569853688586.post-87375547797904068412010-05-17T06:33:00.003-04:002010-05-17T06:37:47.016-04:00My book is now available for saleI'll be vending at the Florida Moonshine and Shadow Lane parties, so you can save on shipping AND get an autographed copy (and possibly a spanking) if you're going to those parties. Hope everyone had a good weekend. I was visiting my parents in S. Jersey, I'm very tired, but it should be a good week. Now that my first book is a wrap, I'm continuing to write and prepare for the next one.Ms. Cassandra (Sandy) Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06868672752765383585noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6106508569853688586.post-79088721390902619742010-05-13T05:30:00.002-04:002010-05-13T05:30:01.211-04:00Why we bratI started this thread on FetLife yesterday when talking to some of my friends in the Hollywood Spanking Munch and Party group, and figured it was worth cross-posting here. It struck me yesterday that my default modus operandi is to be a wise ass. You can call it witty banter, bratting, being a SAM (smart-ass masochist), whatever. I admit that I SOMETIMES do it to rile someone up and give him a Ms. Cassandra (Sandy) Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06868672752765383585noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6106508569853688586.post-60999950247093571352010-05-12T08:39:00.004-04:002010-05-12T09:07:00.117-04:00I'll get right on thatIt looks like another bleary day out there; I wanted to go for a walk but I couldn't this morning, not in the rain. At lunch time, maybe it will be clearer. I'm at home working today, which is certainly better than being in the office, but there are drawbacks. For instance, my cat tends to be an attention whore and this makes it difficult to concentrate. I'd like to be able to sit on the couch, Ms. Cassandra (Sandy) Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06868672752765383585noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6106508569853688586.post-1855854079935289282010-05-09T19:46:00.004-04:002010-05-10T06:50:08.225-04:00"It's SUPPOSED to Hurt!"That's the name of the book I'll be debuting at Florida Moonshine, if all goes well. It's a compilation of the best of my topping blog, "The Corporal Consultant" (www.mscassandrapark.com), along with a little bit about my switch side. Here's a grainy sample of what the cover will look like: the actual book was sent to the printer via PDF today and will be available electronically soon. I'll be Ms. Cassandra (Sandy) Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06868672752765383585noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6106508569853688586.post-60803870059763073192010-04-15T21:34:00.010-04:002010-04-23T06:47:14.536-04:00Work, then playI'm packed for Atlantic City, for the debut of the Boardwalk Badness Weekend, brought to us by the folks at Strictly Spanking NY and Strictly Spanking Philadelphia. This little "retreat" should have inspired a blog from me sooner than today, but once again other thoughts and responsibilities crowd out my blogging life. MOSTLY those thoughts have to do with work stress, but lately it's because Ms. Cassandra (Sandy) Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06868672752765383585noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6106508569853688586.post-38954238565349190262010-04-03T08:25:00.006-04:002010-04-03T08:40:27.972-04:00ConstrictedYay!! Andre of Andre's Toon Damsel's promised to tie me up tonight!! Nothing like a good hogtie to get my juices flowing. Yes, I know it's OTK night at Paddles, but a girl has many needs, and we are sneaking away at a certain point to another, undisclosed location, where unspeakable acts may be occurring. Oh, by the way, if you are coming to Paddles, don't forget the Peeps!!Ms. Cassandra (Sandy) Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06868672752765383585noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6106508569853688586.post-81357996653385797752010-04-02T19:36:00.009-04:002010-04-02T23:30:08.102-04:00Getting out of myselfI took a hot bath earlier, which I do in order to relax and meditate a bit, usually, but it didn't work very well this time. I was lying there with my mind unable to shut off, full of negative things I did not do, people I have not called, projects left unfinished, and the unending, pounding like a jackhammer, f*ckingc*cksuckingWON'TSHUTUPALREADY negative body image!! Earlier I had started Ms. Cassandra (Sandy) Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06868672752765383585noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6106508569853688586.post-2280596096031702952010-03-27T22:14:00.004-04:002010-03-28T09:40:17.409-04:00Chocolate makes things betterI saw these in the store yesterday. (The press release) Now, I say, who among us, even if he does not like a Peep (hard as it is to believe, SOME don't), does not like to watch Peeps being microwaved? I swear I knew about this phenomenon LONG before it was on the internet, but I could be wrong; of course I can't prove it. But who cares who did it first? It's crazy to watch and if you don't let itMs. Cassandra (Sandy) Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06868672752765383585noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6106508569853688586.post-61227130197605729272010-03-25T22:23:00.004-04:002010-03-25T23:25:52.425-04:00Odds and endsNot much to say today. Work is exhausting. Although current management is incompetent, if anyone is let go (there have been rumors) it'll mean more changes and more stress. In case anyone hasn't heard, Pixie of Punished Brats, has been pretty ill and is taking a medical leave of absence. She is recovering, but it will take a while, she says. She's posted her mailing address on her blog if anyone Ms. Cassandra (Sandy) Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06868672752765383585noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6106508569853688586.post-27499773118253717382010-03-23T09:17:00.004-04:002010-03-23T09:45:46.216-04:00Days offThe powers that be decided it would be funny to give me a cold on the two days I had off from work. It actually started on Sunday evening. Yesterday, I ignored my symptoms as best I could because had a writing deadline I was attempting to meet. As soon as I hit "send," I started the water going for the TheraFlu, drank it and then crashed. I have recently started working with a writing mentor, whoMs. Cassandra (Sandy) Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06868672752765383585noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6106508569853688586.post-87111044500394420792010-03-16T09:11:00.005-04:002010-03-16T10:35:06.027-04:00Gray with spots of blueWoke up to a cloudy day but as things are progressing it looks like it may be nice after all. I'll emerge from the cocoon of the apartment shortly. I called in sick, having a bit of a minor (I hope!) stomach virus. I lay down on the couch for an extra half hour of sleep. Buster kitty was on my stomach where he should be, and the combination of physical warmth and "psychological" comfort helped meMs. Cassandra (Sandy) Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06868672752765383585noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6106508569853688586.post-29900515367907177242010-03-14T20:49:00.012-04:002010-03-14T23:12:35.781-04:00Old friends[Picture by "T," model is "S," spanking by Cassandra]Yesterday, I had mentioned getting spanked (and paddled) last Saturday night by an old friend. M. always was one of the best spankers/doms I knew, and we hadn't played in a long time. Well, I hadn't asked; I'd figured he wasn't that interested anymore. (I was also afraid of rejection.) I hadn't seen him out in in public much, and the last few Ms. Cassandra (Sandy) Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06868672752765383585noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6106508569853688586.post-85997535543757926562010-03-13T19:21:00.006-05:002010-03-13T19:46:55.811-05:00I'm waking upMy brain and my writing fingers have been asleep; a long, long sleep, but I'm hoping they are finally waking up. Certain people feel that I should be punished for this, and perhaps they are right, but not everyone can punish me and if the punishment for not writing isn't going to get me writing, I don't quite see the point. It has to really come from within. It's like wanting to lose weight or Ms. Cassandra (Sandy) Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06868672752765383585noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6106508569853688586.post-5073968084636790792010-02-20T13:14:00.002-05:002010-02-20T13:44:22.969-05:00Feeling groovyI'm feeling tired from being out too late last night, but I'm in a good emotional space. This morning, I stopped at PC Richards to get printer supplies. Usually going to PC Richards is a gargantuan exercise in patience because the salesmen are beyond rude and rarely helpful. Arrogance and ignorance are not a good mix for me; combine that with "I'm too hip and young to have to be polite to you," Ms. Cassandra (Sandy) Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06868672752765383585noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6106508569853688586.post-32351464631642297012010-02-14T17:09:00.002-05:002010-02-14T17:13:28.274-05:00Goodbye RockyAbout two hours ago, we made the decision to let Rocky go. He was not responding to treatment for his kidneys and was very, very weak. We said goodbye, then the doctor came in and I held him as he went to sleep. I can't believe this all happened so fast. When we got home and he wasn't meowing at the other side of the door, it hit me. Who will wake me up in the morning now? Thank you, Rad, for Ms. Cassandra (Sandy) Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06868672752765383585noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6106508569853688586.post-35743935114697655362010-02-14T12:57:00.003-05:002010-02-14T13:21:38.437-05:00He's not crazy today, just very sickAll I can say right now is I don't know how much longer my Rocky has. Not trying to be maudlin, but he's got serious kidney issues and diabetes, and now we're hearing about a heart murmur, which could be affected when they try to treat him for the kidney problems. Less than a year ago, my "big fat orange kitty" weighed 22 pounds. Now he's down to 11 pounds! All our jokes about him needing to loseMs. Cassandra (Sandy) Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06868672752765383585noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6106508569853688586.post-5731336282545893942010-02-02T06:03:00.006-05:002010-02-03T07:23:32.886-05:00Creepy crawlieOn FetLife I'm part of a group called NYC C.O.P. (Creepy Old People) 45 and up, started by my friend "Dictatrix". It was I guess started as tongue-in-cheek, a self-deprecating attempt to counter the new wave of young'uns that make up TNG (The Next Generation). Now, I have my friends among the 30-, 40- and 50-somethings, plus some older people and some younger people. But when faced with a crowd Ms. Cassandra (Sandy) Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06868672752765383585noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6106508569853688586.post-7632307624157972612010-01-31T16:58:00.003-05:002010-01-31T17:41:32.676-05:00The Blackberry fiascoThe bloom was off the rose of the Blackberry just after I last wrote about it. Did not have access to emails or websites for five days! I tried various settings and it looked like everything was set up, but no luck. I planned a trip to a Verizon store for help just as soon as I had a day where I got out of work early and didn't have any other plans. This did not work out any day this week -- and Ms. Cassandra (Sandy) Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06868672752765383585noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6106508569853688586.post-39645493449114822922010-01-28T06:43:00.002-05:002010-01-28T06:47:36.361-05:00A bit of crack...A "real" blog to follow later, I think. Marie's given me her old Crackb... Blackberry, so I'm having fun getting used to all the settings. Immediately love how easy it is to see new emails. Now I need to explore how convenient blogging, tweeting and other such nonsense will be from the road. Yes, I still want the LATEST gadget, but this'll do for now. Among other things, I'll be writing about my Ms. Cassandra (Sandy) Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06868672752765383585noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6106508569853688586.post-48236570777981517912009-12-28T12:11:00.002-05:002009-12-28T12:19:17.112-05:00LazyIt's noon already. I have the day off and so far have done nothing more productive than answer emails and read stuff online. Basket of laundry is ready to go. Have to put ribs in the slow cooker for later. Have to take a walk, do a workout, go shopping ... have a business meeting to go to later. Just heard my brother's wife's mother passed away over the weekend AND my sister's husband's mother asMs. Cassandra (Sandy) Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06868672752765383585noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6106508569853688586.post-33187564401458682012009-12-27T13:28:00.004-05:002009-12-28T00:11:22.759-05:00How does the time fly so fast?Now that Christmas is over, I'm trying to get back on track with many things, including writing, working out (only did two workouts last week, goal is three). But I fought my sugar cravings at least for one day and had no sweet junk. Life never seems to slow down. Christmas Eve I went to my brother's house in S. Jersey for his annual party, then stayed at my mom and dad's house nearby. Christmas Ms. Cassandra (Sandy) Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06868672752765383585noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6106508569853688586.post-15862436559600657142009-12-13T12:08:00.002-05:002009-12-13T12:11:36.573-05:00Sit on FetLife Santa's lap!The FetLife Santa is giving away lots of cool prizes. I signed up to win some nice bondage stuff and a corset. Check it out: Sit on FetLife Santa's lap. In the interest of full disclosure, I have more chances of winning if I link to it here. But you all can do the same! Good luck. In the meantime, I should be writing about all the awesome play I had last night at the Manhattan Spanking Ms. Cassandra (Sandy) Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06868672752765383585noreply@blogger.com2