tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6106508569853688586.post955532614790070746..comments2023-07-02T08:25:50.258-04:00Comments on This Cat Is Crazy: Taken in hand vs. asking for itMs. Cassandra (Sandy) Parkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06868672752765383585noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6106508569853688586.post-42645349775770554542009-01-05T07:12:00.000-05:002009-01-05T07:12:00.000-05:00Well if it was a pre arranged rescue signal, then ...Well if it was a pre arranged rescue signal, then that is another thing entirely!LauraThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05717388856903032475noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6106508569853688586.post-50814844393709110792009-01-05T06:39:00.000-05:002009-01-05T06:39:00.000-05:00Oh, yeah, that's pretty awkward. And as a bottom w...Oh, yeah, that's pretty awkward. And as a bottom with some experience, as much as I would love to be "dragged away" by someone, I do have to take into consideration the feelings of the other person I was already talking to. <BR/><BR/>(on the other hand, sometimes you will jump at the chance to get out of a conversation -- LOL!)Ms. Cassandra (Sandy) Parkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06868672752765383585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6106508569853688586.post-53759340306812006992009-01-04T22:28:00.000-05:002009-01-04T22:28:00.000-05:00Watching that immature, tongue sticking out kind o...Watching that immature, tongue sticking out kind of bratting leaves me cold and sometimes even embarrassed for the brat. But then there is stuff I do with Joel, and only with Joel that would be considered bratting of sorts (like being 'taken in hand' to the bedroom and oops didn't I just kick the paddle under the bed). I'd never do that with anyone else. It's just what we do. Joel likes to LauraThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05717388856903032475noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6106508569853688586.post-91992550106598638202009-01-04T22:10:00.000-05:002009-01-04T22:10:00.000-05:00Laura: Are you saying that bratting is a turn-off ...Laura: Are you saying that bratting is a turn-off to you? Or having to ask is a turn-off? I don't like standing around at a party, that's for sure. <BR/><BR/>At one point in the conversation New Year's Eve, it was sort of implied that the brats "grab" all the tops' attention (and tops seem to have no problem letting them do this) while other women are just waiting to be asked. <BR/><BR/>I felt Ms. Cassandra (Sandy) Parkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06868672752765383585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6106508569853688586.post-14760384824989899722009-01-04T22:09:00.000-05:002009-01-04T22:09:00.000-05:00Indy: I don't think it really happened (that I cou...Indy: I don't think it really happened (that I could see), but I think there was at least one person who was hoping it would. Everyone actually seemed kind of shy. There was one top that I'd known for close to eight years but hadn't played with in ages. At one point I just sort of looked at him and made a motion as if to say, "Hey, wanna go upstairs and ... ya know ... ?" He got the hint and we Ms. Cassandra (Sandy) Parkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06868672752765383585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6106508569853688586.post-56588847404868631292009-01-04T16:27:00.000-05:002009-01-04T16:27:00.000-05:00It still fascinates me that a turn on for one pers...It still fascinates me that a turn on for one person is a complete turn off for another. Both are visceral for me. I can't think of much that is neutral, can you? <BR/><BR/>Even a bit of a casual test drive kind of spanking seems kind of lame. Serves a purpose for some, but seems kind of flat. <BR/><BR/>And yes, a great way to spend the New Year.LauraThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05717388856903032475noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6106508569853688586.post-60779977076402276262009-01-04T09:51:00.000-05:002009-01-04T09:51:00.000-05:00Sounds like a great way to celebrate the New Year,...Sounds like a great way to celebrate the New Year, Sandy!<BR/><BR/>Especially if anybody was acting on the information provided... :-)Indyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11949593044223905786noreply@blogger.com